Do you trust enough to think win-win? Do you trust yourself? How about other people?
After having taught at a variety of colleges in two states for the past 12 years, I am often surprised by the perceptions of many students in my courses. I get the feeling that some students believe that education and class is a competitive process with their instructors. Simply put, us (the students) vs. them (the professor). This seems a little perplexing to me.
Some assumptions I have heard from students about the student-instructor relationship:
- The instructor is here to give me busy work
- The instructor wants people to drop out
- The instructor wants to give me a bad grade
- (Believe me, it goes on and on…)
What ever happened to the idea that we are all in this together? This journey of education could be a win-win for both the student and the professor?
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